Commentaire sur Ketoubot 6:2
הַפּוֹסֵק מָעוֹת לַחֲתָנוֹ, וּמֵת חֲתָנוֹ, אָמְרוּ חֲכָמִים, יָכוֹל הוּא שֶׁיֹּאמַר, לְאָחִיךָ הָיִיתִי רוֹצֶה לִתֵּן, וּלְךָ אִי אֶפְשִׁי לִתֵּן:
Si quelqu'un engageait de l'argent à son gendre, et que son gendre mourait, [et elle tombait devant le yavam], les sages disaient: Il peut dire: «À ton frère, j'ai voulu donner; à toi , Je ne veux pas donner. " [Soit lui donner la chalitzah, soit la prendre en yibum (alors qu'avec son frère, soit il donne ce qu'il avait commis, soit elle s'assied (célibataire) jusqu'à ce que ses cheveux deviennent gris.) Et même si son frère était un am ha'aretz (non appris) et il était un érudit de la Torah, il peut encore dire: "A ton frère, j'ai voulu donner; à toi, je ne veux pas donner."]
Bartenura on Mishnah Ketubot
ומת חתנו – and she fell before the levir [for him to consummate the marriage].
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English Explanation of Mishnah Ketubot
Introduction
This mishnah deals with a father who promises to give his wife a large dowry and then her fiancee dies, leaving her liable for yibbum with the brother. The question is, is the father obligated to give the same amount of money to the yavam.
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Bartenura on Mishnah Ketubot
יכול הוא שיאמר – either remove the shoe or fulfill the role of the levir (i.e., marry your sister-in-law), or give what had been decided or let her sit until her head becomes white (i.e., she becomes old), and even though his brother was an ignoramus and he (who had died) was a Sage, he (i.e., the father-in-law) can say – “to your brother, I would want to give [her], but to you, I would not want to give [her].”
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English Explanation of Mishnah Ketubot
If a man agreed to give a fixed sum of money to his son-in-law and his son-in-law died: the Sages say that he may say “I was willing to give to your brother but I am unwilling to give to you.” If a husband promises to give his daughter’s husband a large dowry he is legally obligated to pay that money to the son. We should note that the rabbis encouraged fathers to give their daughters’ generous dowries so that they would find good matches. However, if the son-in-law dies while they are only engaged, the father-in-law is not liable to pay the same amount of money to the brother-in-law who might perform yibbum. This is true even if the daughter wants to marry the yavam. Since the father’s contract was with the other brother, he has no legal obligation to the yavam.
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