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Talmud for Ketubot 1:1

בְּתוּלָה נִשֵּׂאת לַיּוֹם הָרְבִיעִי, וְאַלְמָנָה לַיּוֹם הַחֲמִישִׁי. שֶׁפַּעֲמַיִם בַּשַּׁבָּת בָּתֵּי דִינִין יוֹשְׁבִין בָּעֲיָרוֹת, בַּיּוֹם הַשֵּׁנִי וּבַיּוֹם הַחֲמִישִׁי, שֶׁאִם הָיָה לוֹ טַעֲנַת בְּתוּלִים, הָיָה מַשְׁכִּים לְבֵית דִּין:

A virgin is married on the fourth day [and not on the night preceding the fifth day, for we apprehend that he might then be preoccupied with the wedding and not be able to cohabit], and a widow on the fifth day. For the batei-din convene in the cities twice a week, on the second day and the fifth day, so that if he have a claim of (absence of) virginity, [such as: "I cohabited and did not find blood," whether she be a minor, a na'arah, or a bogereth, or: "I found an open door," if she were a minor or a na'arah (but not if she were a bogereth)], he can rise early to beth-din [when his anger is still upon him, lest he be assuaged and "cool off," and keep her; and it may be that she were adulterous under him (i.e., during the time of betrothal), in which instance she is forbidden to him. The gemara asks: Let him marry her on the first day, and if he has a claim of virginity, he can rise early to beth-din on the second day. And it answers: The sages were solicitous of the welfare of the daughters of Israel, that the groom occupy himself with the (wedding) feast three days: the first, second, and third day, and that on the fourth day he marry her. And when batei-din do not sit on the second and fourth days, a woman can be married on any day, provided that he occupy himself with the feast for three days. And out of solicitude for the poor, it is the custom in some places to marry on Sabbath eve. The reason that a widow is wed on the fifth day is that the sages were solicitous of the welfare of the daughters of Israel, so that (in this instance) he can rejoice with her three days — the fifth, the sixth, and the Sabbath. One who marries a widow is forbidden to work for three days and one who marries a virgin may not work all seven. As to birchath chathanim ("the blessings of the groom"), both a man being married for the first time, who weds a widow, and a widower who weds a virgin, bless birchath chathanim all seven days. And a widower who weds a widow blesses birchath chathanim one day.]

Jerusalem Talmud Yevamot

70In rabbinic institutions it is of the essence that the originators can settle the order of precedence.“If there are males they enable to eat, females do not enable to eat.” 71The following text does not make much sense. The discussion in the Babli, 67a/b, is too hypothetical to be of much help here. If there are males, they enable to eat since there is one doubt, whether he is male or female72As Rashi (Ketubot 67a) points out, there are two doubts, whether the pregnancy leads to a live birth or not and if there is a live birth whether it will be a male or a female. If there is no live birth, the males are the heirs and the slaves may eat because of them. If the baby is female, again the existing males are the heirs. The Yerushalmi probably holds that the miscarriages and female births just about equal the male births so that there are equal probabilities that the existing males are all heirs and the slaves may or may not eat because of them.. A doubt in biblical matters forces restriction73,A generally accepted principle, Babli Beṣah 3a.74If heave were a biblical precept, the slaves could not eat if there was a male heir; if heave is rabbinic, they are enabled by him.. Females75The deceased had only daughters, no son. do not enable to eat since there are two doubts76There is only one doubt but it has two sides, both of which support the position of R. Simeon., whether he is male or female, (after she was betrothed or maybe before she was betrothed.)77The text in parentheses makes no sense here; it belongs to another category of doubts, discussed at length in Tractate Ketubot, cf., e.g., Mishnah Ketubot 1:6–7. A doubt regarding their words forces leniency73A generally accepted principle, Babli Beṣah 3a.. However you take it, if he is male, everything is his78Then the slaves are disabled since before the birth they have no master who might enable them.. Female, she takes her part with them79This parallels the case of boys. In this case there is a doubt concerning the applicability of biblical law which requires restrictive interpretation..
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Jerusalem Talmud Megillah

“One does not recite benedictions for mourners or bridegrooms.” 100An incomplete copy of this text is in Ketubot 1:1, Notes 78–83. It was stated, the marriage benedictions are said all seven days96The seven benedictions required at a definitive wedding and following Grace in the wedding week.. Rebbi Jeremiah wanted to say that one re-enacts the marriage all seven days. Rebbi Yose said to him, did not Rebbi Ḥiyya state, the benedictions for mourners are said all seven days? Can you say that one buries the dead all seven days? How is that? Since here he enjoys with him, so there he consoles with him. As here one remembers, so there one remembers101The topic of conversation in a house of mourning is the deceased; the topic of conversation with the newlyweds is the marriage ceremony..
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